It is the day when Saint Valentine (officially Saint Valentine of Terni), a widely recognized third-century Roman saint, has his feast day. Since the High Middle Ages it is associated with a tradition of courtly love. It is said that Valentine’s Day was established to counteract the pagan celebration of Lupercalia. There is much we do not know about St. Valentine.
Not courtly love.
I want to talk about a different kind of love (and I do not mean the various definitions of that word). I want to talk about your calling; your passion.
A good friend of mine said: Know what your calling is, your vocation, and follow it faithfully.
She also said in that same missive: “When you are most disgruntled, take a moment of conscious breath or five moments of conscious play!”
This is the love I’m talking about. The love for your calling; your vocation (passion).
And what to do when you feel disgruntled (breathe/play).
Susan Kistler, AEA Executive Director Emeritus, shares perhaps an important message about love:
“Success is made manifest in health and happiness, confidence that you are loved and the capacity to love with others.”
That is passion.
How does that relate to evaluation?
We are all evaluators and live and work by criteria, whether they are implicit or explicit. Our passions are found in the criteria. We continue that passion for long in our lives–some of us because of family responsibilities; some of us because it is fun. When we get tired, we stop. We still have the passion and that passion comes out when we least expect it. Because once an evaluator (whether formally or not), always an evaluator.
So celebrate your passion tomorrow. And remember to breath…or play!