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Ask anyone you know who has been married, and they’ll tell you that a marriage proposal is one of the most critical moments in a relationship. All the stress and anxiety are worth it – you’re about to spend the rest of your life with someone.
To ensure this storybook moment goes as smoothly as possible, here is a list of five things you must do before getting down on one knee.
Don’t rush it
Waiting to propose isn’t a bad thing. Many people rush into the proposal because they think they’re ready and don’t want to wait any longer. But before you get married, you should be sure that it’s what you want.
If not, don’t do it. You could be setting yourself up for a lifetime of regret if you are unsure about getting married or if your partner doesn’t feel exactly how you do about getting married.
Make sure her parents are in the know
It’s essential to ask for the parent’s permission before proposing, but it’s also vital to ensure they’re in on the plan. If she knows you’ve already asked her parents, and they said yes, she would be much less worried about what her parents will say or think when you propose.
Have a contingency plan
You should devise at least one contingency plan if your partner says yes but doesn’t want to get married yet. For example, if you are planning on proposing during a vacation or trip, have an alternate destination where you could go instead.
You might also consider having a backup ring that is less expensive so your partner can wear it on her finger until she’s ready for something more permanent.
Make sure you have the right ring for her
Engagement rings are the icing on the cake! If you want to make your proposal as romantic and memorable as possible, it’s essential to pay attention to every detail. Make sure that you have the right ring for her.
A stunning diamond ring can go a long way toward making her feel special on this particular day, but only if it’s the right one for her personality. Choose an engagement ring in keeping with her style (think classic or edgy).
Get down on one knee
The next step is to get down on one knee. If you aren’t a traditionalist, don’t worry about it. Just be sure that whatever strategy you choose to propose is sincere and romantic. You don’t want your partner to feel like they are in an interview rather than getting engaged.
This step helps both parties involved in the proposal to feel confident about what is happening. Suppose either person feels any hesitation or doubt during this moment. In that case, it can lead them into trouble later on down the line when dealing with issues that may arise within their marriage or relationship.
It’s important not to forget who you are as well—you may have spent years dreaming about how perfect your marriage proposal will be once they say yes, but at the end of the day, remember who proposed first. Make sure whatever method works best for your personality type too.
Summing Up
Moving into the next chapter of your life can be nerve-wracking—but it doesn’t have to be. Proposing is a way to connect with your partner in a profound, meaningful way that lets you share some of the most intimate parts of yourself with them.
When you can give that gift to someone, and they accept it, it’s one of the most beautiful experiences. Remember the above tips if you feel ready for this new stage in your relationship. They’ll help keep your nerves down as you start planning for your big moment.
