{"id":16,"date":"2022-02-03T05:12:29","date_gmt":"2022-02-03T05:12:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.oregonstate.edu\/stoicat\/?p=16"},"modified":"2022-02-03T05:12:29","modified_gmt":"2022-02-03T05:12:29","slug":"5-comparison-is-the-thief-of-joy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.oregonstate.edu\/stoicat\/2022\/02\/03\/5-comparison-is-the-thief-of-joy\/","title":{"rendered":"#5: comparison is the thief of joy"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>It is pretty common these days for people to breaks from social media. Many people try to reduce the amount of time they spend on these apps as a way to  stay focused and productive, but sometimes it can be difficult to summon the will power to stop death scrolling. I used to be very involved on Facebook and Twitter, having reached over 5000 tweets before I chose to delete both accounts about 6 years ago. For a couple years I even went back to using a flip phone just to be more off the grid, but unfortunately I moved to a new town and had to get a smartphone for navigational reasons. I won&#8217;t get into all the reasons I think social media is bad, which I think are fairly obvious at this point, so instead I&#8217;d like to highlight some of the benefits I&#8217;ve experienced since becoming a tech hermit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>First, I&#8217;m more focused, and I don&#8217;t mean this in the &#8220;picking up my phone to go on reddit every 5 min when I have a second at work&#8221; sense. I mean more focused on my personal life. When you go on facebook\/reddit\/insta\/tiktok you open the door to a million other people&#8217;s experiences and feelings. Without all that noise, I feel like I&#8217;ve been able to develop my own values and beliefs. I&#8217;m no longer just reading whatever articles the I&#8217;ve been able to increase some good habits in my life like exercise and reading. I&#8217;ve developed some new hobbies and interests, like jiu jitsu and philosophy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>2nd, I&#8217;m more content. Without constantly comparing my life to a million other peoples&#8217; I can be more thankful for what I have and be at peace with my station in life. The words &#8220;comparison is the thief of joy&#8221; have never rang more true. At a certain point you got to accept the fact that you&#8217;ll probably never own a Lamborghini or win the lottery. Once you stop wasting your energy entertaining impossible scenarios you can focus on making your actual life the best it can possibly be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>3rd, I&#8217;ve increased the good habits in my life. These apps have basically short circuited the part of our brains that tells us we&#8217;re  bored and need to do something else. It keeps us locked into a death scroll. There are literally teams of engineers trying to make these apps as <s>engaging <\/s>addictive as possible. Without using these apps, I&#8217;ve been able to listen to my brain telling me that I&#8217;m bored and use it to drive me to do something else. I&#8217;ve been able to increase some good habits in my life like exercise and reading. I&#8217;ve developed some new hobbies and interests, like jiu-jitsu and philosophy.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>4th, I&#8217;m using my time to invest in things that actually influence my life. Our culture moves very quickly from one thing to the next. Something might be in the news for a couple weeks but then is quickly forgotten. For a while it feels important to have the most current information, but soon nobody cares. If our culture was a stock and you could buy some shares of it as an investment, you&#8217;d be super stressed trying to monitor such a volatile asset. It&#8217;d be like trading crypto. I think we should value our attention as much as our money; spend it on things we need or things that will return dividends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I think 4 reasons is a good place to start, but really I think there&#8217;s a lot more. If you haven&#8217;t tried taking a social media hiatus, you should definitely try it. I think the pros outweigh the cons 10 to 1. Although, one of my friends did have to explain NFTs to me the other day, which normally I would&#8217;ve been up to date on had I not deleted reddit 2 months ago. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It is pretty common these days for people to breaks from social media. Many people try to reduce the amount of time they spend on these apps as a way to stay focused and productive, but sometimes it can be difficult to summon the will power to stop death scrolling. I used to be very&hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/blogs.oregonstate.edu\/stoicat\/2022\/02\/03\/5-comparison-is-the-thief-of-joy\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">#5: comparison is the thief of joy<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11982,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.oregonstate.edu\/stoicat\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.oregonstate.edu\/stoicat\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.oregonstate.edu\/stoicat\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.oregonstate.edu\/stoicat\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/11982"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.oregonstate.edu\/stoicat\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.oregonstate.edu\/stoicat\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.oregonstate.edu\/stoicat\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16\/revisions\/17"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.oregonstate.edu\/stoicat\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.oregonstate.edu\/stoicat\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.oregonstate.edu\/stoicat\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}