Willen Sin is a student at Oregon State. He is majoring in Marketing and minoring in Asian studies. During fall term 2012, Willen studied abroad in Hong Kong, China through OSU: College of Business: Hong Kong, City University.

photo 2When I was in third grade, my dad was relocated to Singapore for two and a half years. He brought the whole family with him.  My father was a huge fan of traveling, so each break we would take family trips around Asia. We went to Beijing, Shanghai, Hong Kong, Thailand, India, and Malaysia. Out of those places, I had a distant memory of Hong Kong. This memory motivated me to go back and relive Hong Kong as a young adult and remember this experience for years to come.  I also wanted to improve my language skills.  As a marketing and international business major, I wanted to be in an environment where I can strengthen my Cantonese and Mandarin speaking skills.  It is really hard to master a language unless you are in the environment 24/7 and are forced to use it. Little did I know, when I got there, I would gain valuable wisdom that I could have never imagined. photo 1

Students have a different attitude when they are abroad.  Everyone is open to meeting new people. Everyone is friendly, sincere, and genuinely interested in getting to know who you are and what your story is.  Due to the fact that the majority of the students are going to this new country blind in terms of what to expect, there is an instant connection that you make as you’re able to lean on one another for guidance.  During the first few weeks, you establish friendships that go a long way.  Many exchange students talk about meeting new people as one of the many advantages of going abroad, but for me, it is more than just meeting these people. The experience is about establishing relationships with the people you meet and broadening your network across the globe. Being in Hong Kong allowed me to meet people from The Netherlands, Norway, Germany, Australia, India, Canada, and other countries.  Now if I am ever in want of these places, I will have a network of people that I can reach out to for assistance. Trust me; this makes your budget a lot more flexible.

photo 4Even if it is expensive, one thing you cannot miss out on while abroad is the ability to travel.  When I was in Hong Kong, I spent a lot of my time exploring different countries and new cultures.  I was fortunate enough to go to Macau, Thailand, Singapore, Philippines, China, and Taiwan. Each had its own individual culture and story to it. Obviously traveling can be fun, but one valuable lesson I learned was how large this world is and how small I am. There is so much going on around this world at one time; it is hard to learn and know everything. The best you can do is try to engage, be aware, and do not be afraid to try new things.

Trying new things was a huge motto going into Hong Kong fosnaker the entire exchange group.  One gruesome and exciting story that comes to mind is when a group of us decided to try snake. Coming from all different countries, snakes was one of the animals many cultures do not eat. .  The shop had a few options: snake soup, snake wine, or snake blood with a twist.  To no one’s surprise, a majority of the group stuck with the snake soup, but there was one brave student that was all for the snake blood.  The twist was that you had to drink the blood fresh from the snake.  You can see the commotion brought quite the crowd from the streets of Hong Kong as pedestrians, students, and families all watched this amazing, yet face-quenching scene.

I will end with that.  You will hear this from everyone, but going abroad is one of the best times you will have in your life.  From the places you go, the people you meet, the things you learn, and the stories you will share, studying abroad is a great investment in your education and your future.

Molly MacGraw recently graduated from Oregon State University. She received her Bachelor of Science degree in Human Development and Family Sciences with a minor in Human Services. During her last year, Molly interned for Pathways to Development in Phnom Penh, Cambodia through IE3 Global Internships.

Molly Macgraw - IE3 Pathways to Development Cambodia(3)My experience in Cambodia took me places I could not have imagined before I left home.  The richness of the culture, the friendliness of the people, and the breathtaking landscapes of the country side left me itching with curiosity and wanting more.

Besides discovering the beauty and mysteries of the country, I learned who I am as a person at this point in my life.  My experience forced me to learn, adapt, and change in ways that in the moment were incredibly difficult.  Cultural differences, different structural working systems, drastically different climates, and language barriers caused me to reach inside myself and find a new gear.  This new gear always consisted of patience and also allowed me to look at whatever situation I was in through a different lens and new perspective.  Although these experiences were very difficult, these lessons and experiences are what I thrived on as an intern, traveler, and as a person.  Molly Macgraw - IE3 Pathways to Development Cambodia (2)

One of many experiences that I still hold very close to my heart is the relationship I was able to create with my host mother in the remote villages of Takeo (a small province south of Phnom Penh).  She didn’t speak a word of English and had endured a very hard life so far. She was the sweetest, most positive woman whose huge smile gave me so much comfort.  It amazed me how we could communicate so well through a simple touch on the shoulder, a hug, a smile, or a wave.

Molly Macgraw - IE3 Pathways to Development Cambodia (1)Although the relationship I had with my village host mom was rare and one of a kind, I found myself surrounded by many meaningful, beautiful, and genuine relationships by the end of my trip.  This clearly speaks to how incredibly open and kind Cambodians are.

My time in Cambodia was wonderful, incredible, difficult, crazy, enlightening, and a very worthwhile experience that is hard to put into words.  My international internship in Cambodia will stay close to my heart for a lifetime.

For an extended version of Molly’s story, please click here.